Ok, so now that we were engaged, it was time to start thinking about
getting married. We were not going to mess around. We decided to move as
fast as we could with the process so that we do not spend much time
away from each other. My task was to return to the UK and get all the
paperwork required in order for the coming April visit. We were going to
register our marriage at the Kharkiv Registrar (ZAGS) during my
upcoming visit in April.
Leaving for the UK was always hard, because once again meant very
long Skype video calls, but this particular return to the UK was to be
eventful to the max - I think. Firstly, at the Kharkiv Airport they told
me that they could only see me up to Kiev, not London. So I said “Ok,
get me to Kiev and I will sort it out from there”. That was about 03:00
AM when I checked in at the Kharkiv Airport. So I land in Kiev in the
morning at about 09:00 AM. I pick up my two big suitcases and make my
way towards the screens to see about my flight to London. To my
surprise, my flight to London was not on the screen. So I go to the
Aerosvit Airlines desk to ask what is happening. They did not appear
very interested, but reliably informed me that that particular flight
was not in operation for about 3 months now. When I told them that I
only printed the flight details from their website a week or so ago,
they could not explain.
So they gave it a wild guess that I might have been transferred to
the 10:00 AM Ukrainian International Airlines (UIA) flight to London,
which of course was flying out of another terminal. That meant me
running to the other terminal with two big suitcases. I get there and
the queues were crazy, not to mention the broken conveyer belts. It took
half an hour to get to the check in at which point they could not find
my name on the flight and sent me to the UIA desk. By this time it is 30
minutes till the flight departs. So I go to the desk, the person types
away for a bit on her keyboard and prints me a different version of the
same thing I had in my hand. And with that, she sent me queuing again. I
queue for another half hour and I get the same result.
By now the UIA flight has departed and I started getting a bit
annoyed. So went back to the first terminal again to give the Aerosvit
people some grief about my experience with their airline. There at the
Aerosvit desk, I find a mob of very angry travellers who found
themselves in my situation. With no concept of civilised queuing being
exhibited by the other travellers, I resorted to elbowing myself towards
the desk whilst carrying the two big suitcases. Finally, I get nearer
to the desk and the person in front of me (a nice young Ukrainian girl)
was going to London as well. So I offered to put my passport with hers
so that they place us together on a flight to London. A very good job
that I did that, since after placing us two on a different flight, the
desk promptly closed and all the other people had to go and queue
elsewhere.
So now we were placed on a different flight to London via Moscow with
Aeroflot. So me and this Ukrainian girl go to the Aeroflot desk to
check in our luggage. To our surprise, we find that from Moscow to
London we will be flying Business Class. So we fly to Moscow, there we
get on the plane to London in business class. What an experience!
Glasses of champagne, three course meal, etc. Really amazing experience.
Whilst drinking the champagne, the Ukrainian girl started making
advances, at which point I switched to orange juice and changed the
subject. It was funny that she would do that just after I successfully
proposed to my wife to be (Natasha).
Anyway, we finally get to London and find that our troubles are not
over. The Aeroflot guys messed our luggage up. They only checked it in
up to Moscow not to London. So we had to go home without our bags. For
me it meant asking National Express to change my booking since I was
meant to land many hours earlier at Gatwick and not Heathrow. After a £5
fee they put me on the next bus to Poole where I arrived after
midnight. Almost 24 hours travelling from Kharkiv to Poole, I was well
and truly shattered.
I included the above to let people know that things may not go quite
as smoothly in Ukraine as they tend to do here in the UK. Be prepared
for the possibility that things may not go entirely according to plan.
So now that I was safely back in the UK, rested and refreshed, I
started working on the paperwork. The first document I needed was the
Certificate of No Impediment. I got that from the local registrar office
in Poole. I had to pay £35 and wait about three weeks for it. Then I
got a copy of my passport notarised for about £60. After that, I sent
both documents to the Foreign and Commonwealth Office to legalise the
documents for use abroad. They just put on them the Apostil (like a
stamp if you like). That cost me another £66 I think. After that, I had
to translate the documents into Ukrainian by a recommended translator
from the Ukrainian Consulate in London. I got my flight e-Ticket
translated as well, since I needed to show the return tickets at the
registrar in Ukraine to get the registration date brought forward. Then,
I went to the Ukrainian Consulate in London and got their stamp on all
the documents. The consulate charged me about £30 per document.
Now I was ready to go to Ukraine and get my marriage registered.
Natasha, had to prepare some paperwork of her own there too. The best
thing to do is to go to the Central Registrar (of your city or town) in
Ukraine where the registration will take place and ask them directly the
documents that they will require. Then you can go ahead and get them
together. We kept hearing all sorts of conflicting information about
what documents we needed and whether they could be done in the UK or
best done in Ukraine. Of course doing them in Ukraine can be cheaper,
however I chose to do them all in the UK since I had time and things
just go smoother in the UK when it comes to bureaucracy.
At the Registrar in Ukraine, I presented the documents, they just
checked the stamp in my passport of legal entry into the country and
were happy. After showing them the return date on my (translated) plane
tickets, they gave us a slot to register which was in two days time from
submitting the paperwork. We submitted the paperwork on a Tuesday and
the registration was booked for that Thursday. At the Registrar we would
advise you to go early in the morning, as the queue at the Kharkiv
Registrar of hopeful couples was rather long, long enough to keep us
waiting for about 6 or so hours.
The Moral of the story
Be prepared for many surprises, both pleasant and not quite so
pleasant. Prepare well in advance and be very proactive. Do not
procrastinate when it comes to getting paperwork done. Get in touch with
the registrar in Ukraine to see what they expect from the both of you.
The documents that I had to provide were:
- Certificate of No Impediment (from your local Registrar or office for births and marriages).
- Notarised copy of my Passport (I did all the pages of the passport).
- Sent both documents to the Foreign and Commonwealth Office for the Apostil (stamp).
- Then translated the two documents along with my flights e-Ticket (Ukraine consulate will recommend translator).
- Then got the documents legalised at the Ukrainian consulate in London (they did not stamp the flights e-Ticket)
In Ukraine the Registrar accepted the documents and checked the entry stamp in my passport. And that was it.